Year in Review
2005 has come to an end. For me, this would be the year where the most contigencies have happened, and almost impossible to plan. Or perhaps I should use the old saying: "What man proposes, heaven disposes".
My friends and colleagues would know that I'm the type who likes to plan ahead, be it the annual vacation, getting married, moving house, etc. But this year, the guy upstairs seems to enjoy throwing things in the way of my plans.
Well, my wife and I have been planning to start a family for quite a while. Things haven't been happening quite as planned, so when my project work provided an opportunity for me to be posted overseas, my wife and I agreed that it would be a good break for us (to get away from the pressures to procreate, to allow me to focus on just one project and in technical work, to nudge my wife out of her comfort zone for a while).
Just 2 months before our departure, my wife and I had the good news we were waiting for. It was like the last month that we "let things go naturally"; if we had missed this one, I'd not be typing this from my home now.
So, we had to backpaddle and put an emergency brake to the posting, make adjustments to both our work (my wife has already obtained the no-pay leave she requested and started to hand over some of the work; I had to explain to everybody that I'm not going after all and make arrangements for the project and my workload).
Because I was not going overseas, and because of my dis-satisfaction with my involvement with this project, I started to request for transfer to other projects, getting the project manager to sort of agree that I will transit out by the next milestone sometime in 2006.
Just as I was happily washing my hands off the project, my project manager had some personal issues with his family, and had to be away for quite a while. And I had to cover his project management duties, an instant reversal of my planned extrication from this project.
This took me all the way to the end of the year. Come 2006, I'm not planning for anything, just waiting for things to come. What with my first baby coming, and still not sure when my project manager will be back fulltime on his job, all I can do is to take things one step at a time.
Wishing one and all a happy, healthy and fruitful 2006.


